Around 10:00 am a group of about five people breezed their way into the clinic; they must have involved in an absolutely hilarious conversation because they were all laughing – it was the kind of infectious laugh that made you wonder what they were talking about. About this time, my nurse was busy charting but pointed their way, announced that “she” was our next client and with a chuckle mentioned that I would really like her. Well…I automatically assumed that the “she” my nurse was referring too was the elderly lady in the group. But no, she wasn’t pointing at her. She was pointing to the absolutely drop dead gorgeous young twenty-something year old girl.
I was just shocked. I was just sure I had heard wrong or maybe my nurse had pointed in the wrong directions; I mean she was charting. So when we approached their group I was surprised to see the young girl stand up, hug my nurse and tell her that they had so much to catch up on – it was as if they were old friends getting together for a cup of coffee not nurse and client meeting for another round of chemotherapy. After starting the infusion, my nurse and I went back to the nurse’s station, handed me the client’s chart and said that I should “definitely” read it.
Talk about an emotional experience! For obvious reasons (privacy) I’m not going to go into details. I will say that in comparison, I am so incredible ashamed that I had the audacity to complain about having a respiratory infection for three weeks. Seriously, ashamed. I’m pretty disgusted with myself that I complain so much about my petty complexion “problems.” I just could not believe the spirit of life flowing through this young woman, to say that I was inspired would be such an understatement. I was just in awe of her positive spirit. I was able to spend a while talking to her and her family; I feel so blessed and very fortunate that I was able to help care for them today.
One of the aspects I enjoy most about nursing is the opportunity we have to interact with our clients. I was so pleased that I had lots of time to talk to each of the clients, I really feel as though I was able to get to know a little about each of them. At the beginning of the shift, one of the first things my nurse said to me was – “You should know that we really think of ourselves and the patients as one big family.” She was definitely right; they really are each other’s extended family.
9 comments:
Wow, this sounds like a truly incredible experience! You are going to touch so many lives...awesome.
I'm glad that you had a really rewarding experience. When I went with my dad to the chemo clinic, I too was impressed by how bright it was. Everyone was phenomenally nice and no one was ashamed of the not-so-pleasant effects of chemo. As someone who has been on the family side of the receiving end of oncology nurses (if that makes sense) -- thank you. :)
I'm glad you are back!! I think it's great that you had such a good experience today. It's nice to have a experience like that every now and then to bring us back to reality of how great our lives really are. I catch myself complaining about petty things too.. I'm working on it! :)
Have a great weekend!!
This young lady sounds like a pretty amazing person.
Isn't that refreshing?!!
I'm in Bible study with a lady who recently had breast cancer and is undergoing chemo right now. She is always so positive and joyful. I told her recently that she just glowed. It amazes me.
I'm really proud of you and the work you're doing.
You're gonna be a great nurse.
This is just a beautiful post.
Having been through chemo with my mom, I truly believe there is a special place in heaven for chemo nurses. They unfortunately get to see a lot of suffering in their line of work, but the joy they bring to others is just amazing.
Glad you had such a positive experience.
We all probably take our health for granted at some point and time. It's humbling experiences like that that helps shape us, and I'm so glad you were able to experience it! PLUS I really hope when I get preggo and I have to go to the dr all the time that my nurses will be just as sweet as those docs!
Wow! This post gave me chills! Def puts things in perspective!!
wow that really does sound like it was one of those life changing moments!
I love when things like that happen to give us a much needed dose of perspective. :)
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